One of the most difficult aspects of parenting is when siblings squabble. You know how it starts: Sibling A says a comment to Mom about some random non-threatening topic. Sibling B has some problem with Sibling A for whatever reason and makes some snide insulting remark in response to A’s comment to Mom. A takes offense, as expected, and before you know it there is a full scale war going on.
I hate this.
This is how my afternoon with my teenagers went. My A child has trouble with her B, Brother. She picks on him, mercilessly. She started in when I picked them up after school and by the time we got home, they were about ready to come to blows about who knew more about politics and current events. I’m certain neither of them know anything about politics, but we’ll just let that small minor detail go.
I’d say this happens often, but that would be an understatement. Child A created an art form of mocking and torturing her brother.
No matter what tips, techniques, systems or strategies I use to intervene, it is useless. She continues.
Does anyone have any ideas about how to deal with the child who continually badgers a sibling? I’m at my rope’s end. I don’t exactly want to tie a knot. I’m frustrated, and might just on accident create a noose.
Posted on April 11, 2012, in Parenting and tagged arguments, dinner conversations, financial burdens, insults, kids, parenting, single parenting, stress, worry. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.